How to Talk to Your Korean Friends in Casual Korean (Step 2)

1.~자

“When you want to suggest doing something together in English, you naturally say “Let’s…” right? Well, in Korean, there is an incredibly easy shortcut for this, and mastering Casual Korean is the best way to connect with your friends. Almost all of these casual suggestions end with just one magic letter: “자 (ja)” ! 🥳✨”

It’s super simple but highly effective. If you want to talk like a real local friend, this “~자” pattern is the absolute first thing you should master.

🏃‍♂️ 일상 행동 (Action)
  • 가자! (Ga-ja!) Let’s go!
  • 하자! (Ha-ja!) Let’s do it!
  • 보자! (Bo-ja!) Let’s meet! / Let’s see!
  • 그러자! (Geu-reo-ja!) ➔ Let’s do that! / Sounds like a plan!
  • 해보자! (Hae-bo-ja!) ➔ Let’s give it a try! / Let’s do it!
🍔 먹고 마실 때 (Food & Drinks)
  • 먹자! (Meok-ja!) Let’s eat!
  • 마시자! (Ma-si-ja!) Let’s drink!
  • 사자! (Sa-ja!) Let’s buy (food/coffee)!
🛌 휴식과 힐링 (Rest & Fun)
  • 자자! (Ja-ja!) Let’s sleep! / Let’s go to bed!
  • 쉬자! (Swi-ja!) Let’s take a break! / Let’s rest!
  • 놀자! (Nol-ja!) Let’s hang out! / Let’s play!
✍️ 공부나 일할 때 (Work & Study)
  • 보자! (Bo-ja!) Let’s check it out! / Let’s read!
  • 쓰자! (Sseu-ja!) Let’s write!
  • 듣자! (Deut-ja!) Let’s listen!

2.~라

Next up is the “~라 (ra)” pattern!

While “~자” was a friendly “Let’s…”, this one is a direct command. Think of it as saying “Do this!” or “Go there!” in English.

Word of caution: Because it sounds very strong and commanding, you should only use it with your absolute best friends when joking around, or to someone younger than you. If you say this to your boss or an elder, you’ll definitely see some raised eyebrows! 😲🚫

🏃‍♂️ 일상 행동 (Action)
  • 가라! (Ga-ra!)= Go!
  • 해라! (Hae-ra!) = Do it!
  • 와라! (Wa-ra!) = Come here!
  • 봐라! (Bwa-ra!) = Look! / Watch!
  • 앉아라! (An-ja-ra!) = Sit down!
  • 거기 서라! (Geo-gi seo-ra!) = Stop right there! 🚨
  • 줘라! (Jwo-ra!) = Give it to me!
  • 가져라! (Ga-jyeo-ra!) = Take it! / Keep it!
🍔 먹고 마실 때 (Food & Drinks)
  • 먹어라! (Meok-eo-ra!) = Eat!
  • 마셔라! (Ma-syeo-ra!) = Drink!
  • 사라! (Sa-ra!) = Buy it!
  • 팔아라! (Par-a-ra!) = Sell it!
🛌 휴식과 힐링 (Rest & Fun)
  • 자라! (Ja-ra!) = Go to sleep!
  • 쉬어라! (Swi-eo-ra!) = Take a rest!
  • 씻어라! (Ssit-eo-ra!) = Wash up! / Go take a shower! 🚿
✍️ 공부나 일할 때 (Work & Study)
  • 써라! (Sseu-ra!) = Write it!
  • 들어라! (Deut-eo-ra!) = Listen!
  • 읽어라! (Il-geo-ra!) = Read it! 📚

🚨 A BIG WARNING FROM A LOCAL:

> Because it sounds incredibly strong, bossy, and commanding, you should NEVER use this with strangers, coworkers, or anyone older than you. It might sound a bit rude if you misplace it!

If you really want to try this pattern, keep your tone as soft and playful as possible, and only say it to your absolute best friends or someone younger than you (동생 – Dong-saeng). 😉✨

“Now, I’d like to introduce a song that perfectly showcases the two expressions we’ve just learned: ‘~자’ (Let’s) and ‘~라’ (Command).

As you listen to the lyrics, try to identify exactly where and how these patterns are used. Pay close attention to the tone and the context of each phrase—you’ll be surprised how often these patterns appear in everyday Korean music!”

가사 (한국어)가사 (영어 발음)영어 해석 (English Translation)
잔을 들어 하늘 높이Jan-eul deul-eo hanul nop-iRaise your glass to the sky
비워버려 걱정 따위Bi-wo-beol-yeo geok-jeong tta-wiEmpty out all your worries
한입 가득 털어 넣어Han-ib ga-deuk teol-eo neo-eoTake it all in, one big gulp
인생 별거 없지 그래In-saeng byeol-geo eobs-ji geu-raeLife isn’t much, right?
내일 걱정 내일 모레Nae-il geok-jeong nae-il mo-reWorry about tomorrow, the day after tomorrow
지금 여기 우리 세상Ji-geum yeo-gi u-ri se-sangRight here, right now, it’s our world
마셔라 부어라Ma-syeo-ra bu-eo-raDrink up, pour it up
오늘 밤은 우리가 주인공O-neul bam-eun u-ri-ga ju-in-gongTonight, we are the main characters
마셔라 부어라Ma-syeo-ra bu-eo-raDrink up, pour it up
끝까지 달려보자 가자Kkeut-kka-ji dal-lyeo-bo-ja ga-jaLet’s run until the end, let’s go
마셔라 부어라Ma-syeo-ra bu-eo-raDrink up, pour it up
오늘 밤은 우리가 주인공O-neul bam-eun u-ri-ga ju-in-gongTonight, we are the main characters
마셔라 부어라Ma-syeo-ra bu-eo-raDrink up, pour it up
세상만사 다 잊고 놀자Se-sang-man-sa da ij-go nol-jaForget all worldly cares and let’s play
어제 일은 웃어 넘겨Eo-je il-eun us-eo neom-gyeoLaugh off what happened yesterday
고민들은 씹어 삼켜Go-min-deul-eun ssib-eo sam-kyeoChew and swallow your troubles
한번 살지 두번 사냐Han-beon sal-ji du-beon sa-nyaYou only live once, not twice
배꼽 잡고 웃어보자Bae-kkob jab-go us-eo-bo-jaLet’s hold our bellies and laugh
지갑 비어도 마음 부자Ji-gab bi-eo-do ma-eum bu-jaEmpty wallet, but rich in heart
이 순간이 진짜 명작I sun-gan-i jin-jja myeong-jakThis moment is a true masterpiece
가슴을 뻥 뚫어버려Ga-seum-eul ppeong ttul-eo-beol-yeoBlow your heart wide open
막힘없이 쏟아 부어Mak-him-eobs-i ssod-a bu-eoPour it out without hesitation
다 같이 소리 질러봐Da gat-i so-ri jil-leo-bwaScream it out together
준비 됐지 하나 둘 셋Jun-bi dwaet-ji ha-na dul setYou ready? One, two, three

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